Wednesday, May 27, 2015

On eight strong emotions

Here’s a crazy fact: I have four months and two weeks of Peace Corps left.

Here’s another crazy fact: A new report by the Washington-based Economic Policy Institute finds that 2015 female grads are likely to earn $3 per hour less than their male counterparts. Is it 1950?

But enough facts, let’s talk about the eight words that will help explain what I’ve experienced this week.

1) Help
I translated while thirty university students helped marginalized communities receive access to health care through a medical mission in Montecristi.

2) Pain
I watched a bus run over a dog and break his leg while the bus driver kept backing up and blasted dembow music over the howling of the injured dog.

3) Love
We celebrated Mother’s Day (here, celebrated the last Sunday of May) with my women’s group in Copey. There were presents donated from the mayor and banana company and a delicious meal of goat and potato salad. But the most meaningful part was the speeches the women gave for their mothers, daughters and grandmothers. Many women had lost their mothers and so in a beautiful moment of silence, we sent a cosmic burst of love to mothers – alive, fallen, grieving, sick, young and old.

Copey Women's Center with their gifts
My Copey family: Yesenia (mom), me, Margot (grandma), Calina (aunt) and Keki (other aunt)

4) Talent
My talented 12-year-old neighbor helped me bake a delicious turtle fudge brownie (granted it was from a box) and then clean my kitchen and do my dishes all in under 25 minutes.

5) Celebration
My host brother turned 24 so in celebration, he bought a handle of Brugal rum and drank it with his buddies on the street corner.

6) Sickness
After a wonderful 24 hours in Santiago (my favorite city in the DR), I got food poisoning and spent the better part of two days vomiting Gatorade. I’ve been sick too many times for comfort in this country, but maybe I’ll have a stronger stomach after all this?

Santiago Monument
7) Generosity
Knowing that I had about a million errands to do in the nearby town of Dajabon and after seeing me sick as a dog, a wonderful friend, Victor, offered to take me 45 minutes away in his car to help me run the errands, including: paying internet bills, fighting with phone companies, buying materials for my second improved cookstoves project, finding cake and going to the bank – all things that take (on average) six times longer than they would in the US. 

8) Life
Everyone all around me is popping up pregnant! First, there’s my 19-year-old host sister but it’s hush hush because we all think it’s the 55-year-old Dominican-American baby daddy of her other 5-year old child. Then there’s my neighbor who’s the kindest most generous friend I’ve made so far, except there’s never been a boy in the picture and I’m too nervous to ask who the father is given that her sister’s baby daddy happens to be the Mayor who has another family and perhaps scandal runs in the family. And then there’s the 95-pound paramedic we trained and now has to leave the group from a complicated pregnancy. The baby daddy is the town doctor who promised her a nice house on the hill if she leaves the group and her job to take care of herself while he provides. Grrr.
Is this ostrich preggers too?
And that's just another week in the life. Until next time, take care!

Monday, May 11, 2015

On being famous

I'm not actually famous, sometimes I feel that I am in my small town where I can enter a building an everyone says, ¡¡BEA BEA BEA!! like they just saw Beyonce walk in. Dayummm it feels good. But, my claim to fame this week is that I was interviewed by a Peace Corps blogger serving in Zambia who got ahold of me for a really cool blogging project she's working on - interviewing a Peace Corps Volunteer in every country where Peace Corps currently serves. A huge endeavor but mighty cool! So, check out my interview! 
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Name, hometown, and age: Bronwen “Bea” Raff from Hailey, Idaho; 24 years old.

What country and program do you serve in? Please give a summary of your program goals and what your typical work includes. 
I serve in a small community in the northwest of the Dominican Republic, sharing the northern-most border (km 0) with Haiti. I am a Health Volunteer and my project framework includes working with women and youth to train them as health promoters, and building improved cookstoves made from cement and clay. My informal responsibilities include teaching English, drinking coffee on various porches around town with old ladies, implementing a rural emergency response system like “911” where there is none, and learning to dance salsa.

What is your housing like? What amenities do/n’t you have? What are some of the biggest challenges of your lifestyle? 
I still live with a host family even though it was only a requirement for the first four months in site. I live above their main house and have my own separate entrance so I get my privacy, but I also have a family looking out for me (ie. when I get really sick and can’t make it downstairs to eat they’ll bring me up soup and juices). I live in a small bedroom with a fan(!), an indoor bathroom(!), a mosquito-infested closet, two windows and a desk-turned-bookshelf-turned-kitchen counter-turned-coffee table depending on the day. I share a kitchen with my host family and that’s perhaps one of the most frustrating parts of service for me. I never feel I can whip up my own recipes or entertain my own visitors and guests. Because of this, I have a pretty boring and basic diet. I tend to eat coffee and bread (with peanut butter if I’m lucky and my supply doesn’t run out before I go to the big city for a refill) for breakfast, for lunch, I eat rice, beans and chicken everyday without fail, and for dinner, I tend to scrounge, maybe eating whatever a neighbor cooks and offers me, perhaps boiling some eggs, occasionally an empanada or some mashed bananas with fried cheese (yummy!)

What are your host-country neighbors like as a people? 
Dominicans are spicy! They have lots of flavor and often in excess. Be it kindness, they go above and beyond, offering whatever they have in the kitchen sink to visitors. Be it assertiveness, Dominicans are strong in their wording and very direct, sometimes overly so (like when calling me fat, skinny, ugly, tired, charred from the sun, greasy haired, etc). Be it confidence, Dominicans will try to convince you of everything – herbal tea remedies, that the sun revolves around the each, that dengue comes from Obama, etc – they will convince you of what they believe in and do it with serious flow.

I love how close-knit families are here and how much neighbors look out for each other. Dominicans are extremely social and the heat permits lots of time spent in plastic chairs gabbing with friends, family and neighbors in the street, sometimes blasting music, sometimes just trying to catch a breeze, sometimes praying, sometimes gossiping, sometimes buying things from vendors who walk around with goods in buckets on their heads. It’s a vibrant culture with spirit, energy and amazing hospitality.

What are some of the most rewarding parts of your service? What have been some of your greatest challenges? Has PC service met/surpassed/trample don your expectations of what service would be like?
Rewarding? Huh, it’s all pretty rewarding for me at this point. I love my projects and the way I’ve made the health sector’s initiatives work for me and my community. I have loved being adopted into a family and looked out for by so many community members. I feel fulfilled by my capacity to travel easily in a bustling country of organized chaos and speaking Spanish fluently. I love that my days here fill me with happiness and that I am proud of my work. I love that this is my life and that I am so lucky to be experiencing every moment of it. I came into Peace Corps with certain expectations of what it would be like – the community I would be in, the living situation I’d be in, etc. But after a few months, I forgot all of those expectations and just took the culture, country and my service head on, acknowledging challenges as they came, but not focusing too much on how it “should be.” Doing that is toxic. Comparing yourself to others is dangerous. It makes for a long 27 months and a pretty miserable day to day life. Once I started digesting and reflecting on my life as it was happening not as I thought it should be happening I was exponentially happier, it was one of the most important lessons I've learned. I always remind myself, it is what it is. Nothing more, nothing less. 

Why did you join Peace Corps? Looking back, do those reasons still apply to you now?
Applying to the Peace Corps was an obvious route for me, I was a Peace and Justice Studies/Community Health major in college and had always dreamed of living abroad. I knew I’d apply but I didn’t really think I’d ever join Peace Corps. I sort of just wanted to prove that I could get in. I didn’t want to teach English in a foreign country just to live abroad. I needed to know that I was making the correct step professionally. So when I was accepted to a health program in a Spanish-speaking country, I knew the fates had aligned and it was the right path forward. I resisted the idea of accepting for a while, especially after various articles my mom sent, highlighting medical problems past PCVS have had, violence against women in far-flung countries, sobering sexual assault cases and lack of support and other horror stories that have dampened Peace Corps’ image throughout the years. But I accepted a month before graduation and never looked back. Now, over 21 months in, I’m glad I said yes, and very much think it has and will continue to inform my professional career.

Do you feel like Peace Corps is still a worthwhile program for the U.S. Government? 
Absolutely! Economically speaking, it’s a drop in the bucket. Peace Corps’ budget was $379 million in FY2014, that’s nothing. USAID requested $22.3 billion for FY2016, the 19 Smithsonian museums in DC are operating on $851 million for FY2015. The Corporation for National and Community Service (the branch that supports AmeriCorps) has a budget of $1.18 billion. So yeah, Peace Corps deserves to keep sticking around financially. I’m not saying that any of the above examples shouldn’t be given as much funding, I’m just saying that relatively, funding Peace Corps is cheap.

Also, as a patriotic individual, I believe in the benefit of having “friends on the ground” living with host-country nationals and educating others on American life. Yes, it’s diplomatic, but it works. We are an integral part of cross-cultural understanding and as the world gets smaller, that knowledge becomes increasingly important. If I can help someone understand that the United States is more than Nueva Yol, Beyoncé and the Red Sox, I’ve done a good deed. We are the peacekeepers, and on an idealist level, I believe strongly in the importance of this.

If you had to give a piece of advice to someone thinking about applying to PC or getting ready for staging, what would you say? 
27 months is a long time. Take it day by day at first, work up to taking it week by week, and eventually you’ll stop counting down the days and the months will fly by. Do something in your site that fulfills you, not just a requirement or initiative. Make friends with host-country nationals. Learn the language as quickly as possible. Reflect often. Write things down. Show up, even if you don’t want to. Drink your country’s kool-aid not only by literally drinking local beverages but also by learning to love the culture. The sooner you love where you are, the better your service will be.

Any plans for post-Peace Corps? 
Hopefully a big cross-country American road trip to see all the friends and family I’ve neglected for the past 27 months. Then back to Idaho for Thanksgiving and Christmas and moving to a new city (Seattle, San Fran, DC?) with a (hopefully) job in January 2016.

Check out Hannah's blog here: https://hannahgoesfishing.wordpress.com/

But why would I ever want to leave this beautiful place?


Tuesday, May 5, 2015

On milestones

Here's a timeline of the most momentous occasions in my Peace Corps Dominican Republic adventure:

October 2012: Submitted my application for the United States Peace Corps, a dream I've had since I was in high school.

November 2012: Interviewed with the Boston recruiter and she sent me a formal nomination for health, education or environment sectors.

April 2013: After months of waiting and no word on Peace Corps' end, I received my invitation to serve in the Health sector in Peace Corps Dominican Republic

May 2013: Invitation accepted!

August 20, 2013: Attended staging in Washington, DC.

August 21, 2013: Arrived in country confused and tired.

August 21 - September 9, 2013: Pre-service training in the Capital.

September 9 - October 18, 2013: Community-based training in El Portón.

October 20, 2013: Discovered our site placements! I'm going to Manzanillo, in the province of Montecristi in the northwest! ¡Lejos!

October 25-28, 2013: Spent my first weekend in Manzanillo.

October 30, 2013: Swore in as a Peace Corps Volunteer.

November 4, 2013: First day in my very own apartment/bedroom above an amazing host family's house.

November 28, 2013: Thanksgiving with my PCDR family, one of the best ones yet.

December 25, 2013: First time I've cried in country. I was missing Idaho snow and Christmas food with my parents. But I got over it as soon as we slaughtered and ate my Christmas pig, Canchito. Yummmm. ¡Que rico!

February 11-14, 2014:
3-month In-Service Training. Wow, I've been in site for three months already. Time has come to formally start my projects.

February 28, 2014: Turned 23 and celebrated it on the beach with great friends.

March 23, 2014: Received a $3500 PEPFAR Grant to start and facilitate projects focusing on HIV/AIDS with women and youth.

April 4-6, 2014: Attended my first conference, Brigada Verde, to promote sustainability and environmental education with two youth from Manzanillo.

April 9-12, 2014: Traveled with a group of youth to the capital to see "politics in action," complete with a trip to the National Palace and Supreme Court.

April 22, 2014: Planted 56 trees in town to celebrate Earth Day.

May 28, 2014: Graduated 8 adult English language learners from Bea's English School.

June 6-7, 2014: Hosted my very first youth group exchange in Manzanillo with Elana's group from Clavellina, Dajabón.

June 14-15, 2014: Planned and attended my second youth group exchange with Julie in Palo Verde, Montecristi.

July 19, 2014: Graduated 36 youth in Manzanillo's very first Escojo Mi Vida graduation.

August 2, 2014: Last beach day with the original Montecristi crew, as Julie is leaving for America!

August 6, 2013: Graduated 16 women in Copey's very first Hogares Saludables graduation.

August 12, 2014: Received $3,000 grant from World Connect to construct 30 stoves in Copey.

August 20, 2014: Graduated 24 women in Manzanillo's very first Hogares Saludables graduation.

August 28-30, 2014: Brought 2 students to a Deportes Para la Vida (Sports for Life) Training of the Trainers, learning how to teach HIV/AIDS prevention through sports and exercise.

September 2, 2015: First day of stove construction!

September 14-24, 2014: Home to America for the Blog It Home Tour and visit from my momma.

September 25-28, 2014: One-Year Celebration with my swear-in group!

October 30, 2014: One year since swear-in, strange time - one of much reflection.

November 4-7, 2014: One year In-Service Training (IST!)

November 24-28, 2014: Selected for the coveted Thanksgiving Baking Team, spending a week making green bean casserole and macaroni and cheese in the house of the director of the USAID DR mission. Can someone say hot water, wifi and a fridge full of snacks?!

November 29, 2014: Escojo youth leadership workshop for superstar youth - promoting sustainability and leadership within Escojo Mi Vida!

December 6-29, 2014: Back to Idaho for Christmas!

January 10, 2015: Finished all 30 stoves in Copey and applied for a grant to do another 40, what was I thinking?

January 17, 2015: Ran my first 5k race in country, what an experience.

February 19-23, 2015: Climbed Pico Duarte, the tallest mountain in the Caribbean (or the 79th tallest in the world).

February 28, 2015: Turned 24!

April 29 - May 1, 2015: Chaperoned youth at a business conferences called Construye Tus Sueños, Build Your Dreams.
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Since this was published, I have also done the following:

June 3-5, 2015: Coordinated and co-facilitated a stoves training for the new group of volunteers.

June 5 - July 4, 2015: Second time in my service that I've completed the "30-Day Challenge" of staying in my site for an entire month without leaving. It's harder than you'd think! In that month, I was extremely productive, making cookstoves, facilitating first aid trainings and compartir-ing like a true Dominican!

June 24, 2015: Hosted my "daughter" Gissaury's birthday party and first time organizing children's play.

Where will I go from here? COS is 65 days away! 

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